

Being an Influencer Is Becoming Embarrassing Again
Every era has a preferred spokesperson. The 1950s had the smiling housewife. The 1980s had the celebrities. The 2010s had the influencers. I'm beginning to think the late 2020s will belong to someone else entirely. A few weeks ago I stumbled across Corner, a new maps app with an unusually simple promise: zero ads, zero influencers. Instead of asking Who has the biggest audience? they ask a different question. Who actually knows this place? Their philosophy is almost radical i


We Optimised Everything and Made the World Ugly
As I wandered through the streets of Málaga, absorbing the beauty around me, one question would not leave my mind. When did we stop adding magic to things? Not magic in the grand sense or fantasy. But the small details that make life feel alive. The carved balconies that someone took time to create. The hand-painted tiles. The weathered doors. The cafés that seem to have absorbed decades of conversations into their walls. Details that serve no obvious purpose other than beaut


You Don’t Need to Heal. You Need to Get a Life.
I first discovered self-improvement when I was around 16. Back then, it wasn’t as common as it is today. I remember a woman on YouTube who talked about meditation, practising affirmations, and the importance of gratitude. I was fascinated by it because it felt like a whole new life was being promised to me if I practised certain techniques. The very thought that I could change my life made me believe that I had to. A few years later, the internet became flooded with content l


You Can Outgrow a Life and Still Miss It
I emerge from the subway at 86th Street, on the Upper East Side, into an afternoon that feels borrowed from another year. The Q train releases me the way it always did, with a hiss, a gust of tunnel air, the sudden return of sky, and for a moment I stand at the top of the stairs just breathing, letting the neighborhood reassemble itself around me. The wind moves lightly through the avenue, softening the city into motion. Roma Pizza still sits tucked into the corner, dwarfed b


We Tell Women to Leave Toxic Men. Why Not Toxic Jobs?
I was 23 and driving through the streets of San Diego. I had to solicit fifty doors of small businesses before I could return to the office, where I’d have the business cards I’d collected counted by my manager. I pulled over around 4 p.m. and called my dad, crying. I only had 30 cards and had basically hit every open business in the area. As instructed, I’d park on one end and walk to the other, in heels at that. I was exhausted. It was my first job out of college. Trying to


Women Were Told to Cover Up. Now We’re Told to Take It Off.
There seems to be a very specific kind of woman we have decided is liberated. Forgive me if I’m wrong, but she is sexually confident. She doesn’t need a man. She dates freely, talks openly about sex, shows her body without apology, and refuses to feel ashamed for wanting pleasure. She is independent, unattached and, most importantly, completely in control. And to be clear, she should be allowed to be all of those things. But between giving women the freedom to live this way a


Apparently, Having Fun Is Embarrassing Now
I moved to New York City with the idea that I would feel like a rockstar trapped in a supermodel's body when I went out. Then I went out and saw nobody was dancing. Moving to New York City used to come with the promise of a vibrant nightlife and a complicated dating life; but the chances of dating getting easier are low, I’m still single, so let’s stick with dancing I always dreamed of being a true party girl, fur coats in the winter, messy hair every season. Almost everythin


Modern Friendship Is Just Keeping Tabs on People You Never See
My first encounter with heartbreak was fairly early. Not the kind you’re thinking of (my social skills with boys are virtually non-existent), but a little something called friendship. As a child, this heartbreak did a pretty fantastic job of rattling my brain when I couldn’t yet make sense of the world. When I was nine, I spent two hours making handmade Halloween cards for two of my closest friends, each card personalised for them. But they never showed up. I’d wait exactly


Patti Smith Never Picked a Lane. Why Should You?
Last summer, I read Just Kids by Patti Smith. It was a memoir, an autobiography, but it was so much more than that. It told a love story, one that moved back and forth between platonic and romantic, but most of all, it was about two people whose art blended into each other, who drew inspiration from each other, from their love, from their courage, and who supported each other through hard times. The love and artistic bond between Robert Mapplethorpe and Patti Smith moved me s


Chuwi Is a Family First, a Band Second
Most bands spend years learning how to become a family. Chuwi never had to. The Puerto Rican band grew up together, long before tours, stages and audiences entered the picture. That closeness still sits at the centre of everything they create: in the blunt honesty they bring to one another, in songs shaped by home and distance, and in a belief that community might be one of the few things powerful enough to hold us together. In our conversation with Chuwi, we talk about growi


We Don’t Take Photos to Remember. We Take Them to Be Seen.
Last week, I experienced the girlhood-classic conundrum of running out of iPhone storage. The warning on my screen, alongside the red, disproportionate percentage of my photo album occupying 70% of my entire storage, forced me to finally go through my gallery. And when I did, I realised I had so much junk floating around there; most pictures were so meaningless. Why did I have 40 live pictures of me with a drink? Or why did I have 35 different split-second screenshots of a si


The Next Luxury Status Symbol Is Having Friends
Three years ago, if you had told someone that one of the most desirable luxury products of the next decade would be a community, they probably would have laughed at you. Communities were supposed to happen naturally. You inherited them through neighbourhoods, schools, workplaces, religion, university campuses and long-standing friendships. Nobody needed an application form to make friends. Nobody paid a membership fee to feel understood. Belonging wasn't something you purchas


Your Brain Has Terrible Ideas. Stop Treating Them Like Facts.
My therapist always asks me to challenge my thoughts. Not because having them is the problem, but because letting them consume me is. Which sounds simple enough, until you realize how little control you actually have over what shows up in your head. The other day I caught myself doing something that, in hindsight, is completely normal. I had a thought (shocking!), then another. Then another. Instead of letting them pass, I did what I always seem to do: I got swallowed by the


If Being a Bitch Means Having Boundaries, Maybe We Should All Be Bitches
Lying in my hospital bed, trapped in the cold, sterile silence of the ER, I was desperately trying to hide from my phone and the relentless stream of messages waiting for me. Just before coming here, I had to cancel plans I’d been looking forward to for weeks, the kind that included all my closest friends. I have long since lost count of how many events I’ve had to bail on over the last three years because of these recurring hospital visits. But this time, the familiar sadne


Café Deco Believes in the Power of Keeping Things Simple
In a London dining culture obsessed with spectacle, Café Deco is making a case for something quieter: food with conviction, hospitality with warmth, and the confidence to stop when something is already good.
There is something almost unconventional about a restaurant that does not seem particularly interested in proving anything.
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